8.30.2009

Pictures say thousand words, so does flowers?

Wanting to give someone who is special a bouquet of flowers, but do not really know anything about flowers? Check out the list below~ And surprise that person that you do care even at choosing the correct flowers.


Baby's Breath  --  Everlasting Love
Buttercup  --  Cheerfulness
Pink Carnation  --  I'll never forget you
Yellow Carnation  --  Rejection
White Chrysanthemum  --  Truth
Daisy  --  Innocence
Forget-me-not  --  True Love
Hibiscus  --  Delicate Beauty
Iris  --  Hope
Ivy  --  Friendship
Jasmine  --  Amiability
Lavender  --  Devotion
Orange Lily  --  Hatred
Magnolia  --  Sweetness
Orchid  --  Refinement
Primrose  --  I can't Live Without You
Red Rose  --  I Love You
Black Rose  --  Death
Yellow Rose  --  Jealousy
Pink Rose  --  Please Believe Me
Peach Flowers  --  Longevity
Sunflower  --  Loyalty
Yellow Tulip  --  Hopeless Love
Violet  --  Modesty


This post is still under construction. I will add more later. Sorry about this~

Types Of Love

Romantic Love -- One constantly thinks about the loved one and needs reassurance that one is loved in
                             return.


Friendship Love -- A close friendship slowly develops and is mutually trusting and committed.


Unselfish Love -- One is devoted and self-sacrificial towards the loved one, giving without expecting 
                             anything in return.


Game-playing Love -- One enjoys the dating game but has no intention of long-term commitment to 
                                     the other person.


So which of the above is you relationship with the one you love. Is it still alright to continue the relationship, or you should really continue with the relationship and make it even better?

LOL - Language Of Love

This post is still under construction, I will add more to it later. Sorry for this.


How To Say "I Love You" In Other Languages.


French : Je t'aime
German : Ich liebe dich
Italian : Ti amo
Japanese : Aishiteru
Korean : Sarang Heyo
Malay : Saya cintakan mu
Mandarin Chinese : Wo Ai Ni
Tamil : Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Thai : Chan rak khun (female to male)
Thai : Phom rak khun (male to female)
Vietnamese : Anh ye^u em (male to female)
Vietnamese : Em ye^u anh (female to male

8.27.2009

"Why can't he tell me?!?!" / "I wanna tell her sooo bad!!!"

This was a mail I received from a girl friend of mine. It's a chain mail actually. But the ingredients inside is the one I want you to look at.


This is a Guy talking...

 Its 7th grade...

I stared at the girl next to me...She was my so called 'best friend'...I stared at her...Long, silky hair...And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said 'thanks'... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know that I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...

It's Junior Year...

My phone rang... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... A Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me... Said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...

It's Senior Year...

The day before prom... She walked to my locker... 'My date is sick' she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neither of us had dates... We'd go together just as 'best friends'... And so we did...

It's Prom Night...

After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said 'I had the best time... Thanks!'... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...

It's Graduation Day...

A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... but she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And she cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said 'you're my best friend'...'Thanks!'... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wanted her to know that I wanted to be more than 'just friends'... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...

It's A Few Years Later...

Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watch her say 'I do' an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said 'You came!... Thanks!'... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wanted her to know that I didn't want to be 'just friends'... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...

Years Passed...

I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... 'I stare at him... Wishing he was mine... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be 'just friends'... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wished he would tell me he loved me'... I wished I did too... I thought to myself and I cried...


So this is what I want to say. If you know that you like him/her, pluck up the courage to tell her/him. Though you might think that he/she doesn't like you. But who knows? Maybe he/she feels the same way too. It's better to be rejected than to be kept in the dark. At least you did confess to him/her. When years passed, you won't regret. This goes to telling your parents, grandparents, siblings, your loved ones etc before it's too late.


Trust me, by then you will really regret. Because this happens to me too. I was too shy to tell her "I love her and wanted to thank her badly." She's my aunt, but now, she is not around anymore.


So, don't wait...

Same Sex Love

This a question that bothers a lot of people. Especially those who cannot accept the love of the same sex. They believe that love=a girl and a boy. But definitely not love between two guys or two girls.

Love is unlimited. If you can love someone who has a large age gap, why can't you love someone from the same sex as you? Though I am not a homosexual type of person, but I accept the love between the same sex. Why is it that their love is not recognized by most of the people? When you are reading this, you would probably say that you do accept same-sex relationship. But when you actually saw it, at that moment, would you still be able to say that you are able to accept their love?
As for me, I do have friends who love people from the same sex, and they are happy together. When you say you are brave about Love, are you sure about it? And what makes you think that you are that brave?

People who are homosexual are those that are brave when it comes to relationship. Why? That's because they do not care about how people look at them and think that they are abnormal. Then what is normal Love? Who says that a relationship between a male and a female is called or known as "normal Love"? What prove do you have to support that? Then what exactly is Love? Then if that's the case, Love would be limited.
Though I did not say that homosexual relationships are "normal", I did not say that they are "abnormal". Because when it comes to things as complicated as feelings, there is no right or wrong. Is it wrong to love someone from the same sex? These people, they can't help it. They are charmed by the same sex. Though this happens to me sometimes. Don't tell me you never felt this way. That means that if you are a girl, you should not have idol who are females. Because it's not normal to love them. And if you are a guy, you should not have idol who are males, since it's not normal at all.

If you disagrees, then why can't you accept their relationship? Since they are so brave and are proud of themselves, why not give them our support? Isn't that a better thing to do than to go against them and make them have feelings "disorder"?

Like I said, personally, I am not a homo. But I have friends who are like this, and I find that they are brave and they can really go all out for their relationship. So why can't we recognized their precious relationship?

8.26.2009

What Is Love?

This is a question with a simple answer. But why is it that it's so hard to understand? When you found the someone you like, you would ask yourself, "Is this Love?" And as you are thinking, you would wonder what exactly is Love. Such a simple word, L-O-V-E, can be so difficult to understand. So simple, yet so difficult...

Then, What is Love?
Love is something that cannot be measured. You can never tie it, catch it or even keep it. It's a very complicated type of feeling. Sometimes, you can feel it, sometimes, you don't.
When you love someone, it means that this person that you love is important. You want that person to be happy with you. When he/she is feeling down, you will try all ways to make him/her laugh. When you are not able to see him/her, you feel a sharp pain in your chest. Tears just flow down without your permission. You feel down all the time. Though you are smiling on the outside, deep in your heart, you are tearing badly.

Sometimes, though on the outside, you say you love him/her. But do you really love him/her. Under what type of feelings do you classify your relationships? Is it just friendship type of love? Siblings type of love? A long term partner type of love?

Once you said you love him/her. You expect the same as him/her. But what if it's just an one-sided type of love? Will you force him/her to love you in return since you love him/her? Knowing that perhaps there is someone else whom him/her love, will you let him/her go? If you don't, will he/she be happy with you? What you keep with you eventually, is not his/her heart, it's just a cold puppet that you are holding on to.

You say you know what is Love, but do you really know what is Love? Perhaps you do, perhaps you don't...